I am no longer satisfied by having sex, sexuality and sex work discussed, researched and written about by men, or women with no experience doing sex work, with only limited sexual experience of their own, with bias, with limits, operating within the constraints of what currently exists, or highlighting problems that never get solved or truly addressed. I think its time for people with the relevant experience, knowledge and insight into anything to do with sex to speak up. We won’t ever get anywhere if we keep relying on inexperienced people sharing their thoughts on things of which they have only limited personal experience.
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left and right is just different ways of looking at the world Free speech Its exciting to challenge core beliefs Exhilarating Fear of the power of language to corrupt the masses - left right - worries that actions will corrupt the masses. Interesting development in free speech could define where I need to live Will free speech or protected speech produce the fastest progress? There is no identity until someone else looks at it. devils advocate is critical thinking, scientific process Left - externalise blame and externalise trauma corral the bad people and you can feel ok.
Childrens/youth softness of mind is cause of inactivity of the body.Kids who played outside were more physically and mentally resilient.Protect the body and the mind is fearful.
We aren’t as resilient as previous generations and the less resilient we become, the less resilient the future generations become. Currently resilience is either taught through abuse, or neglect. Through being a hard ass parent and forcing you to be resilient, which builds resentment. The other way is through neglect, like with me. You learn resilience through not having any skills and then being traumatized and having to learn resilience. Not enough people are taught how to be resilient in a healthy way. It should be standard parenting practice. Our bodies and minds need to be resilient and capable of dealing with reality. Resilience is the skills and mental state to cope with the reality of the world and your life within it, enabling you to thrive and not be swayed by anything outside of you. The strength, understanding and skills to not be subjected to your own emotions and feelings and deal with the constant onslaught of external existential threats we are manipulated to fear, in order to freeze us. Don't be frozen by feelings. Learn to be resilient so you can be moved to do something to fix the problem, or just live life.
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Here you go. When I was deep into the daily scroll, this is the information I would have liked to see, to get a real vibe of someone and not waste time!!! Tinder bio advice: A few examples of what you like, but with range; ie, "Im into dirtbikes, [podcast/tv/media interest], [other activity]. A idea of what youre looking for: ie Just looking/New to this/Im looking for something casual/I love going on dates/I am ready for a relationship/I'm looking for the one....written in your voice. An idea if youre indoorsy or outdoorsy. An idea if you prefer to party or stay home. Something to hint at your personality, if youre funny, a joke. A comment on something you like. Something youre excited about coming up for you. Pictures: Have different angles, some face, some doing stuff. One dimensional pics make it look like youre hiding something. Orrrr if youre just a horny bloke and want to be honest about it... Dick Size Sexual interests Things you’re looking to try/explore/do more of. What you’re looking for: Some cool chick who is down to fuck and act like adults about it. Whether you want to wine and dine her first, or if youre just down for the 69ing.A few examples of what you like, but with range; ie, "Im into dirtbikes, [podcast/tv/media interest], [other activity]. Something to hint at your personality, if youre funny, a joke. A comment on something you like. Something youre excited about coming up for you. Pictures: Have…
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Im not in the right mood for cam today. I am way too real me who wants to act like the grown, intelligent, aspie woman I am. Apparently if you are like that you cant also be sexual and horny. I cant be this real me as they just dont understand it. Which makes me dig in more. Why should I have to lower myself to their level....cause money bitch thats why!!!
Well it has been a long time since Ive written and a lot has developed for me. I think its worth pointing out that I have spent the last 3 years working with multiple therapist for my mental health and working on fixing postural issues and trauma encoded in my body. During this process I have been diagnosed as being on the Autism Spectrum. I relate heavily to the diagnosis of Asperger's even though we arent supposed to call it that anymore. But it matters to me. Asperger's is a very certain type of Autism that is mostly associated with men, and male genius, and male behavior that is actually normalized by society, where as a woman with Asperger's is the opposite of what society says a woman should be. So in terms of people understanding me clearly, I think it important to identify with something that is typically considered male. This has also been my journey with sexual devolopment. Taking on the role, attitude, performance or male sexuality in order to highlight how contradictory our male and female sexual narratives are. Where I was at when I last wrote about this, was a place of burden. I knew sex was wrong. I knew the sex I had been having wasnt what I wanted. I had thought of how it might be different and with this knowledge I tried to have the sex I wanted by doing all the work. I would make them lay back while I indulged in…
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I have had a life of amazing things cause I collect times Ive been fully in the moment. If Im searching for something, somewhere, someone, outside myself, or get lost in my head, then I wont be collecting new amazing experiences. What make an amazing experience for me is when Im fully immersed in what Im doing. Not thinking outside of the moment, not analysing how I feel, being fully present. I can do that for everything. I dont have to wait for something big enough to demand my full attention. It is the attention to bring to everything I do so that even the smallest activity is an event. I won't collect new experiences by thinking about what to do. I will collect new experiences by being present in what I am doing.
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Back to work today after Moms visit. Feeling a bit foggy brained. Had Patrick, spoke to Dad. Watching Andy Warhol Documentary while I get ready. Feeling artistic and inspired.